Newsletter – October 2007

Watching and Waiting

     How many of us have watched and waited for a friend to play with in our lifetime? I used to listen to that Moody Blues song and yearn so deeply to share time and space with someone who could understand and accept me as I am. However, being accepted as I am does not mean that it is an easy transition from being alone into being in relationship. Even those who choose to have only sexual relationship must learn

to integrate another’s reality. It takes a lot of intentional effort and consciousness to be in relationship. 

     Today there are so many different roles that it is difficult to articulate exactly what is needed and/or wanted within the concept of relationship. The male/female family unit seems to be a hanger on from the past. Now, individuals establish relationship with children for rearing them without separate male/female roles, same sex relationships choose to parent which provides children another opportunity to learn that male/female roles are included in every individual. All of this helps set aside gender confusion that results in various "macho male" and "helpless female" roles. Polyamory is a current trend that some use to explore their attraction to multiple partners. This allows people to learn to set aside jealousy around the relationship meme of ownership and territory. The boundaries are becoming less defined between the specified roles. And then there is Triadic energy which is a new thing under the sun. People tend to "make it up as they go along" but that adds to confusion which empowers the old relationships meme.

     Triadic energy allows an individual to step into truth to establish a new communication that is heard by everyone there to listen. The newness is so extreme that people shy away from it because their old ideas about relationships don’t work within the triadic energy field. Triadic energy is a new way of communication where creativity expands into an inclusive process of interaction. It is the answer that a lot of people are seeking without words to define the question.  So we may become willing to allow triadic energy to flow unimpeded between us and then use that energy in a good way to co-create community and harmony. Have a conversation with someone about this and discover the incredible levels of accuracy that unfold during the interaction. You may be pleasantly pleased to realize that the template has been established and the universal flow of energy is at your fingertips. Welcome to the new paradigm… To further explore this new creative energy you may want to become part of the relationship circle that begins October 1 at The HART Center.


                                             Relationship Circle

October 1       Rev. Dr. Jane Abraham, LCSW, LADAC        7:30 pm            $25

If you are having relationship problems Jane is going to facilitate a relationship circle for those who want to explore their interactions with others. Issues will be discussed to help individuals develop close and meaningful relationships.  A commitment to 12 sessions is required for you to be considered and once the group is established it will be closed until the next group begins. If you are interested in exploring and freeing yourself of old ideas about human interactions call Jane 828-1332 to discuss whether you are appropriate for this experience. The cost will be $25 per person.

                                                                HART WORK

                          October 6        Jane Abraham and Keith Henderson 9am – 3pm $75

                                                  Trance Dance

October 26      Laurice Smith and John Sullivan  6 – 9 pm   $35

Mystery School of Indigenous People

Gary Adler FourStar

Dreams and Vision

October 12, 13 & 14

$250            21 contact hours

Learn to utilize ancient perspectives to find meaning in your dreamtime messages. Experience the power of dreams through the sacred hoop teaching or recognition, choice, commitment, and surrender. Recognize the multiple levels of dream consciousness. Differentiate between prophetic, everyday problem solving dreams, dreamtime schools, visionary dreams, travel dreams, waking dreams and shamanic dream states. Identify meaning and purpose in the dream realm through ancient perspectives and techniques. Practice "village interpretation" to identify illusions that separate you from your vision and dreams.  


The Healing Arts Research Training Center and Experiential Healing Center are collaborating to offer an innovative approach to healing from any attachment disorders. iq will offer participants an opportunity to delve into the deeper issues that arise when they get “stuck” in their recovery process. Through the use of experiential techniques we will provide a wide array of services to help participants find true meaning and purpose in their lives so they may live as conscious and responsible spiritual beings learning the human experience.

Community Services from The HART     Donation of $10

Acupuncture Detoxification        Every Day upon request     5:30 pm – 6:30 pm

We offer this too those who want to detoxify their bodies from various substances as well as to de-stress. You must call Jane 901-828-1332 to participate.

Drumming Circle       Monday 10/1,15 & 29      7:30 – 9 pm

Keith leads this open drumming circle. Bring your drum and if you don’t have one we have a few that you may choose from to play. Call Keith 901-493-1103 to discover which Monday is the one…

Meditation     Every Tuesday     6 – 7:30 pm

This is an open Buddhist meditation circle. Call Kevin McLellan 901 -832-0521 for information.

Healing Meditation     Every Wednesday      5:30 – 6:30 pm

This is an open meditation focused on healing led by Kathy Schnider 901-754-9508 for information.

Open HART Night      Every Wednesday      7 – 8:30 pm

Certified practitioners volunteer their time and energy to work with the community.


Grace House Regional Training Events

October 19     Healthy Sexual and Gender Expression in Recovery  Kent D. Fisher LPC   and

                     Michelle Rappaport, LPC   9 am – 3:30 pm    $30    6 contact hours

October 20     How to Simplify Life     Jane Abraham, LCSW   9 am – 3:30 pm   $30    6 contact hours

The HART Center offers Domestic Violence Batterer Intervention, Anger Management, and Parenting Classes for those who need to address these issue and move into recovery. Call Jane 901-828-1332 to discuss these classes in detail.


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